GroUp 143, the accident group (ha-ha)

September 1, 2006, at exactly 8pm ng gabi, natapos ang case pres namin sa Fort Bonifacio General Hospital. Nung pauwi na kame, me, Sab, Gigo, Mon, Isay, Olan, Ken, Marj, Jewel and Rose, naglakad kami kasi wala nang gaanong dumadaan na jeep sa Gate 3. Si Stephen naman at There ay umuwi na kaagad.

at 8:40, nakasakay na kami.. 5 minutes later, naaksidente na kami.. how? ganito.. may isang hinayupak na lango sa alak ang nagdadrive ng bulok na van, ang pumunta sa lane namin at binangga ang kawawang jeep na sinasakyan namin. dahil puno ang sasakyan, nung nagpreno si manong driver, naipit yung nasa likod ni manong.. si Isay, Olan, Mon, Marj and Ken ang nakaupo sa likod ni manong, respectively. si Gigo, Sab, Me, Rose and Jewel naman sa katapat nila.. 4 ang injured at 1 ang naghyperventilate. so isinakay na sina Isay (na sobra ang bugbog sa katawan), si Olan (na nabugbog ang left leg), si Mon (na may bugbog sa likod), Gigo (na nauntog at bugbog ang right leg) at Sab (na hindi makahinga ng maayos) sa ambulance. nauna sila sa hospital.

at 9pm, nakarating kami sa Makati Medical Center..

12:29 am (2-Sept-2006), saka lang dumating ang hinayupak na lalaking lango sa alak.. binayaran naman niya ang damages, pero kung ako lang, papakulong ko talaga xa! aba! driving under the influence of alcohol ang magiging case nya! hmp.. mabait lang kasi si tito (papa ni gigo), chaka iniisip din niya na pagod na kami..

3am, nakauwi na ako..

haha! what an experience.. naging emergency nurse kaagad ako..

here's our pics.. (not during the accident)



in the loving memory of.. hehe joke lang..



complete pix ng grupo..

negative namin .. haha ..

thanks to kenneth na nagedit ng mga pix.. visit our pix here..

http://www.picturetrail.com/group143

sana di na maulit ang accident na ito .. haay ..

~*iM.mOviN.oN*~

_i.myt.h8.myself.in.da.mornin.4.luvin.u.diz.mch.2nyt_

_but.neverdalez.i.wud.rizk.everything.juz.2.b.wid.u_

Lumipas na ang lungkot ko. Mabisang gamot talaga ang panahon.

-Jeremy, YELLOW HANDKERCHIEF

PANAHON, yes, 1 year had passed this fast. Parang kahapon lang nung natanggap ko ang text niya na nagsasabing: CEZ, YOU DESERVE SOMEONE BETTER. Sa tuwing maiisip ko yun, nalulungkot ako, nasasaktan. Pero tama, mabisang gamot ang panahon. Nalulungkot parin ako pero hindi na kasing dalas ng dati, nasasaktan parin ako pero hindi na kasing sakit katulad noon. Baliw na kung baliw, but, I still dont believe him. Yung mga ipinagtapat niya sakin. In denial? Pwede rin. Pero no one can force me to believe things i dont want to. I'm not hping though, na darating yung araw na mamahalin pa rin niya ako. Katulad nga ng sinabi ko, I've given him up a year ago, and now I'm ready to move on.

It takes time to forget and forever to get over it. The pain might fade away but the memory of the pain will remain in your heart.

-Mr. Servilleno Pacis

IT TAKES TIME TO FORGET, now that a year had passed, kakalimutan ko na lahat ng naramdaman ko, nararamdaman ko at mararamdaman ko for him. Susubukan ko.. Para narin naman sa akin ito eh. If I wont do it now, kelan pa? Kaya susubukan ko na NGAYON. FOREVER TO GET OVER IT. I might forget everything, pero hindi parin ako sure if i would get over those feelings. After all, lahat ng saya, lungkot, sakit, galit, kahunghangan, at kabaliwan na naramdaman ko habang minamahal ko siya eh naging part na ng buhay ko. i may deny it, but those feelings made me complete. I've experienced joy, sadness, anger, pain, love (for a moment, at least), and gladness that is different from what i normally feel with my family, thanks to him. But! THE MEMORY OF THE PAIN WILL REMAIN IN MY HEART forever.

Once you undergo a failed relationship, the pain is always left unaided. Everyone thinks you've moved on, but you'll later realize.. You never stopped loving him, you just learned how to live without him.

YOU NEVER STOPPED LOVING HIM.. Yeah, mahal ko parin siya. But i'm not feeling sad about it. why should i? Lagi kong sinasabi sa iba, when you chose to love, prepare to be hurt. Tama naman ako. Kasi magkakambal lagi yun eh (love and hurt). But i CHOSE not to be sad nor hurt. I want to feel happy about it. Not everyone gets the chance the feel the way I'm feelin' right now. Some are afraid. At kung maramdaman ko man ang sakit once in a while, that won't kill me right? LEARNED TO LIVE WITHOUT HIM, that i would surely do. Hey! For the past 15 years of my life, nabuhay ako ng wala siya. Kahit puro sakit at lungkot noon, kahit hindi ako marunong magmahal, nabuhay parin ako. And now I've learned how to love and be hurt, ngayon pa ba ako susuko? I can live another 15 years and more without him. I can be the person that i wanted to ne, kahit wala siya sa tabi ko. Pero alam kong.. Patuloy ko parin siyang mamahalin.. Hangga't hindi pa ako nakakahanap ng taong mamahalin ko ulit..

The day I met you, i went home carrying a smile. You may be just an ordinary person to a lot of people, but for me, you're someone i'll cherish up to the end of my life.

THE DAY I MET YOU - that was last week of May, year 2003, nagtetext xa sa D LOUNGE and i got his number (or his cousin's). He introduced himself to me with his cousin's identity (who happens to be my bestfriend's friend now). Months later, i knew the real him. i was trully glad i knew him (totoo yun). YOU MAY BE AN ORDINARY PERSON TO A LOT OF PEOPLE (esp. to his DAD) but he has been an EXTRAORDINARY PERSON TO ME. He has changed me into a person i never thought i would be, he have hurt me like no other person can, he managed to touch my heart with his simple but irritable (and sometimes soothing) words, he made me smile during my loneliest days, he made me cry when in fact, i should be happy, he's been the brother i never had, the (boy) bestfriend i've longed for, the companion i always need.. in short, He has been a part of my life for the past 3 (happy, sad, hurtful, contented, anxious, blissful, bored, frustrated, curious, grieving, confident, envious, painful, puzzled and miserable) years kahit hindi ko pa xa personal na nkikilala . i know its foolish to some, that i have loved a person whom i barely knew and i ALMOST (but never) met, but it wont change the fact that once in my life, I fell in love with a stranger.

I am writing all of these in response to the question once asked to me: TATANUNGIN KITA. KAKALIMUTAN MO NA DIN BA? (17-dEC-2005; 7:20 PM)

My answer is NO.. I am going to move on but i wont ever forget that guy. In fact, mamahalin ko parin siya (ang gulo ko noh?) in my own way. But this time, i wont be hurt. I am going to be in full control of myself, of my feelings, of everything that concerns ME. Hindi ko na uli hahayaang saktan ako ng ibang tao. And i wont blame other people for my faults.

IM SO GLAD I MET HIM BUT I HAVE TO MOVE ON.. continue with my life and fulfill my dreams.. Give my family a better life and eventually become the person i have always dreamt of.

-PRINCESS MAE CALIBOSO BERNABE

~*i hope you remember me as the girl who always smile even when her heart is broken and the one who could always brighten up your day, even if she couldn't brighten up her own*~

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FORGET MY NAME
NEW FOUND GLORY



tell all my friends I'm dead

I'm leaving you, this time its for good

tell all my friends that I'm dead

it won't be long before you forget my name

can you tell

that I'm losing myself

I think I'm trying too hard

to let it show

to let you know

don't trace your footsteps back to me

I've been gone for a long time

waiting on the sidelines

hoping for a chance to play

well I thought I would never leave anything behind

I also never thought I'd say

tell all my friends I'm dead

I'm leaving you, this time its for good

tell all my friends that I'm dead

it won't be long before you forget my name

can you tell

that I don't know myself

I need someone to remind me

to let it go

please let me know

don't trace your footsteps back to me

cause I've been gone for a long time

waiting on the sidelines

hoping for a chance to play

well I thought I would never leave anything behind

I also never thought I'd say

tell all my friends I'm dead

I'm leaving you, this time its for good

tell all my friends that I'm dead

it won't be long before you forget my name

and if I had the chance

to do it all again

I wouldn't expect anything less

and if I had the chance

to do it all again

I wouldn't expect

I wouldn't expect anything less

tell all my friends I'm dead

I'm leaving you, this time its for good

tell all my friends that I'm dead

it won't be long before you forget my name

forget my name

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GOODBYE TO LOVE
CARPENTERS



I'll say goodbye to love

No one ever cared if I should live or die

Time and time again the chance for love has

passed me by

And all I know of love is how to live without it

I just can't seem to find it

So I' ve made my mind up I must live my life alone

And thought it's not the easy way

I guees I' ve always known

I' d say goodbye to love

there are no tomorrows for this heart of mine

Surely time will lose these bitter memories

And I'll find that there is someone to believe in

And to live for

Something I could live for

All the years of useless search

Have finally reached an end

Loneliness and empty days will be my only friend

From this day love is forgotten

I'll go on as best I can

What lies in the future is a mystery to us all

No one can predict the well of fortune as it falls

there may come a time when I will see that I've been wrong

But for now this is my song

And it's goodbye to love

I'll say goodbye to love

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FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY BROKEN HEART

BRITNEY SPEARS





"Never look back," we said

How was I to know I'd miss you so?

Loneliness up ahead, emptiness behind

Where do I go?

And you didn't hear all my joy through my tears

All my hopes through my fears

Did you now, still I miss you somehow

CHORUS:

From the bottom of my broken heart

There's just a thing or two I'd like you to know

You were my first love, you were my true love

From the first kisses to the very last rose

From the bottom of my broken heart

Even though time may find me somebody new

You were my real love, I never knew love

'Til there was you

From the bottom of my broken heart

"Baby," I said, "please stay

Give our love a chance for one more day"

We could have worked things out

Taking time is what love's all about

But you put a dart

Through my dreams, through my heart

And I'm back where I started again

Never thought it would end

CHORUS

You promised yourself, but to somebody else,

And you made it so perfectly clear

Still I wish you were here

CHORUS

"Never look back," we said

How was I to know I'd miss you so?

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ALL AT ONCE
WHITNEY HOUSTON



All at once

I finally took a moment

And I'm realizing that

You're not coming back

And it's finally hit me all at once

All at once
I've started counting teardrops

And at least a million fell

My eyes began to swell

And all my dreams were shattered all at once

Ever since I met you

You're the only love I've known

And I can't forget you

Though I must face it all alone

Chorus:

All at once I'm drifting on a lonely sea

Wishing you'd come back to me

And that's all that matters now

All at once I'm drifting on a lonely sea

Holding on to memories

And it's hurt me more than you know

So much more than it shows

All at once

I looked around and found that you were

With another love

In someone else's arms

And all my dreams were shattered all at once

All at once the smile that used to greet me

Brightened someone else's day

She took your smile away

And left me with just memories all at once

Ever since I met you

You're the only love I've known

And I can't forget you

Though I must face it all alone

Repeat Chorus (2X)

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ON MY OWN
LEA SALONGA



And now Im all alone again

no where to turn no one to go to

Without a home without a friend without a face to say hello to

And now the night is near

now I can make believe he's here

Sometimes I walk alone at night when everybody

else is sleeping

I think of him and then I'm happy with

the company I'm keeping

The city goes to bed

And I can live inside my head

On my own,

Pretending he's beside me,

All alone, I walk with him till morning.

Without him, I feel his arms around me,

And when I lose my way, I close my eyes,

And he has found me...

In the rain,

The pavement shines like silver,

All the lights are misty in the river,

In the darkness the trees are full of starlight,

And all I see is him and me,

Forever and forever...

And I know it's only in my mind,

That I'm talking to myself and not to him,

And although I know that he is blind,

Still I say, there's a way for us...

I love him,

But when the night is over,

He is gone, the river's just a river

Without him the world around me changes,

The trees are bare and everywhere the streets are full of strangers.

I love him,

But everyday I'm learning,

All my life,

I've only been pretending,

Without me,

His world will go on turning,

A world that's full of happiness,

That I have never known...

I love him... I love him...

I love him... But only on my own...

love love love

Love doesn’t seek what’s not there. Love accepts all pain to bear. For love patiently waits for someone out there.

-jtp

parang martyr din ang labas .. haay naku ..

not sacrifice but joy

Love, in its highest form, is not only the readiness to sacrifice. Real love is when the sacrifice can no longer be called sacrifice but a joy.

-unknown

oo .. kasiyahan na ng mga nagmamahal ang pagsasakripisyo .. pero paano nila nagagawang magsaya kung nasasaktan na sila.? ..

frat

FRAT MEETING LEADER: Pre, blita q bading k dw..22o ba?!
AMBO: Di ako bakla pre. Mga chismax lng un gling s mga chuvanes n wlang mgwa s mga chenilyn nla. Chura nla! Hmp!

-jtp, 15-April-2006, 7:22 pm

oo, chura nya .. sya yun .. kilala na nya kung sino sya ..

puso at isip

Sadyang magkaiba ang pinaniniwalaan ng PUSO at ISIP. ‘What the heart insist, the mind resist.’ Ikaw nga, which way would you go? Sa PANINIWALA mo o sa NARARAMDAMAN mo.

-jtp, 18-April-2006, 10:11 pm

ako sa paniniwala ko nalang .. kasi hindi naman nakakapag-isip ang puso .. minsan pa, napapahamak tayo dahil dito .. kung isip ang gagamitin mo, magiging praktikal ka lang .. ay, baligtad yata .. hahaha ..

ideal love

Sometimes we dream on ideal love we wanted. When it comes, we give the best to hold on to it but though we gave more than enough, they still hurt us for the reason we don’t understand.

-jtp, 18-April-2006, 10:10 pm

they hurt us, of course. Lagi naman kasing magkasama ang pain and love .. hindi na maghihiwalay yun .. kasi kung hindi tayo masasaktan, hindi rin natin masasabi kung kailan tayo masaya di ba.? ..

love another one

There is a magic in love. we follow the rule LOVE ONE ANOTHER. And if it doesn’t work out, just swap the last two words. LOVE ANOTHER ONE. Tama naman hindi ba?

-kristine saludez, 14-April-2006, 10:27 pm

tama.! .. love another one .. pero this time, sana karapat-dapat na diba.? ..

you deserve someone better

letting go doesn’t always mean its over. Breaking up would not mean I’ve had enough. Instead, its as good as saying ‘ayaw na kitang masaktan, go on, you deserve someone better’.

-jtp, 18-April-2006, 10:09 pm

ewan ko lang ha.? .. for me kasi, this is the biggest excuse I’ve ever heard ..

nothing to prove

Its not necessary that all our efforts and sacrifices are recognized, as long as you know and God knows you did your best, nothing more to say, nothing more to prove.

-mark joseph laderas, 14-April-2006, 8:35 pm

okay ..

forget the rules

Sometimes you have to just forget the rules. Follow your heart and see where it takes you. never apologize for saying what you feel because that’s like saying sorry for being real. Never regret anything that you said or did because at some point, it was what you wanted. True strength is being able to hold it all together when everyone else is expecting you to fall apart.

-jtp, 18-April-2006, 10:07 pm

forget the rules pero never break them.. Follow your heart but think twice .. Syempre, you don’t have to apologize for what you are .. Yeah, yung mga nagawa natin, we did it because we want to .. Kung nagkamali man tayo, edi mali, pero we have to admit na ginusto parin natin yung nangyari .. Hekhek .. ang gulo ..

dont force

Don’t force yourself to fall in love just because you think its your turn. Wait for a while maybe God is just having a great time preparing the heart of someone who deserves an endless love.

-sabrina velasco, 18-April-2006, 9:37 pm

yeah, hindi magiging maganda ang relationship na pilit .. wahahahaha .. kaya nga tinawag na FALLING IN LOVE diba.? .. kasi you just fall ..

express

feelings are made to be expressed. They are not meant to be kept, don’t be a loser without fighting, never make regrets for yourself to suffer. Because you know what? In silence, it hurts more.

-kristine saludez, 14-April-2006, 6:49 pm

haay .. bakit kaya hindi tinatamaan sa ganitong words yung isa kong friendship .. hahahaha ..

heaven and earth

Fate brings together people meant to be. The heart knows what we sometimes refuse to see. Will you let love pass you by? Or will you move heaven and earth for the one you love?

-pmcb, 17-April-2006, 12:03 am

move heaven and earth pang nalalaman .. hahahaha ..

opportunity

Time is like a river. You cant step on the same water twice because the flow that has passed will never pass you again.

-roland garcia jr, 18-April-2006, 1:42 pm

take risks and take chances .. yun po ang sinasabi dito .. may kasabihan nga diba, na opportunity knocks only once .. hihi ..

cutie

The most selfish 1 letter I, avoid it. Most satisfactory 2 letters WE, use it. Most poisonous 3 letters EGO, kill it. Most used 4 letters LOVE, value it. Most pleasing 5 letters SMILE, keep it. Fastest spreading 6 letters RUMOUR, ignore it. Hardworking 7 letters SUCCESS, achieve it. Most enviable 8 letters JEALOUSY, distance it. Most essential 9 letters PRINCIPLE, apply it. Most divine 10 letters FRIENDSHIP, maintain it.

- fe buenaflor, 19-April-2006, 1:50 pm

hehe .. this is real cute ..

secret of life

the secret of life isn’t just to live but to have something worthwhile to live for we only live once, but if we live right, one lifetime is enough.

-jtp, 16-April-2006, 5:44 am

tama po .. hindi tama yung mabubuhay lang tayo, matutulog kapag inaantok, kakain kapag nagugutom, etc etc .. hindi lang basta ganun yun .. we have to study para may maabot .. magtrabaho para may maipagmalaki .. we have to make something out of life .. we have to make it special .. because we only live once ..

survival

All the waters in the world could never sink a ship unless it gets inside. All the pressures of the world can tear you apart, but it can never hurt you, unless you let it in.

-jtp

ito ang cute .. hekhek .. ang tanging naintindihan ko, in able to survive world’s cruelties, wag po tayong masyadong paapekto .. yun lang ..

hindi ko na kaya

Sa likod ng mga ngiti ko may mga luha. Sa likod ng mga biro ko nagtatago ang problema. Hindi man ako laging tunay na masaya, sana, malapitan kita kapag hindi ko na kaya.

-kristine saludez, 17-April-2006, 1:01 pm

may isang tao akong gustong pagsabihan niyan .. but for some reasons, hindi ko magawa .. unang una na dun ay dahil hindi ko naman talaga siya kilala ..

takot?

Minsan gusto ko ng makalimot kaso takot akong makasakit. Hindi ko tuloy alam paano ko gagawin ang sumaya ng walang lumuluha. Palagay mo magawa ko kaya? Ang iwan ang isang taong ayoko na pero mahal ko pa.

-kristine saludez, 16-April-2006, 8:03 pm

ayaw mo pero mahal mo pa.? .. why.? .. haha .. paano nangyari yun.? .. takot lang siguro silang magmahal noh.? ..

forever is a lie

Some have a lifetime, some just a day. LOVE isn’t something you measure that way. Nothing is FOREVER. Forever is a lie. All we have is hello and a goodbye.

-pmcb, 18-April-2006, 11:36 pm

yeah .. forever is a lie pagdating sa love .. so don’t ask for a love to last forever .. because you will be having a love that is in a lie ..

pray always

Sometimes you need to be alone to find yourself, to think and realize something, to become better. But if you need someone to talk to, just hang on because God is excited waiting for you.

-mark joseph laderas, 15-April-2006

Pray always, in sickness and in health .. hehe .. hindi lang yan para sa kasal ..

life

in life, the greatest handicap is FEAR, the hardest thing to do is BEGIN, the most useless asset is PRIDE, the most scary thing to do is CHANGE, and the greatest mistake is GIVING UP.

-jtp, 13-April-2006, 2:10 pm

its hard to begin but you have to diba.? .. its good to have pride but too much pride is bad .. ikapapahamak mo lang yun .. change is not scary, it is the process that was scary .. giving up is not always a mistake, lalo na kung ikasasaya nila yun diba.? ..

the one for you

You deserve to be happy not in the arms of someone who keeps you waiting, but in the arms of someone who will take you now, love you forever and never leave you.

-kristine saludez, 13-April-2006, 1:38 pm

kelan kaya dadating ang taong yun ..

face it

If you run away from problem, it breaks you. if you face it, you break it. Not everything that is faced can be changed. But nothing can be changed until it is faced.

-mark joseph laderas, 14-April-2006, 9:09 pm

uhm .. ayun .. yun na yun ..

ngiti lang

there are things you don’t expect to happen. Mahirap, sobra. but you must always remember that sometimes, nauuna ang hirap sa saya. Kaya ngiti lang. Aayos din yan.

-patrick arcinas, 12-April-2006, 10:24 pm

sana nga laging ganun nalang diba.? ..

a reason to move on

There’s always a reason why we have to move on, to say goodbye to the feeling we wanted to stay forever. For the love has to set its wings free and find the right place where it should be.

-kristine saludez, 12-April-2006, 10:10 pm

oo naman .. parang ganito .. kahit gaano pa kaganda ang isang lugar, you will never be comfortable staying there because you are stranger to the place .. babalik at babalik ka parin sa place kung saan ka komportable ..

mind and heart

A brilliant mind is useless without a fighting heart because in life’s challenges, you make an impression with what you say but you make a name with what you do. Be strong always.

-jtp, 14-April-2006, 1:11 pm

yeah .. parang ganito .. kahit gaano kapa katalino, balewala .. lalo na kung sa mali mo gagamitin ang katalinuhan na yun .. parang ang layo .. hehehe ..

how?

Kung mahal ka nya, babalik sya. Kung hindi, bahala sya. Swerte nya mahal mo sya. Malas nya pinakawalan ka nya. Maraming andiyan para mahal ka. nasa sayo na lang kung sino sa kanila.

-kristine saludez, 12-April-2006, 10:45 am

but how.? .. kung isa lang talaga ang nasa puso natin ..

ikaw lang

sa love, wala namang right or wrong. Kapag alam mong tama ka, do it. Kahit ba mali sa paningin ng iba, so what? Kung sakali namang mali ka nga, sino ba ang masasaktan? Hindi naman sila hindi ba?

-kristine saludez, 11-April-2006, 8:41 pm

alright .. that’s the spirit again .. hahahaha .. we are responsible for every act we have done ..

never

dami ng quotes na nagkalat. Pero ito ang pinakamatibay sa lahat.. ‘love the heart that hurts you, but never hurt the heart that loves you’..

-kristine saludez, 11-April-2006, 6:28 pm

oo naman .. hey, tama talaga .. haay ..

because of the pain

Its sad when I fall for someone and finally decided to stop because of the pain. I tell everyone that I’ve let go and moved on but deep inside me, I know: I haven’t. I never did. Maybe I never will.

-kristine saludez, 11-April-2006, 5:23 pm

hmmf .. sobra naman ..

tao ka lang

Kapag nagmahal ka, you don’t have to change yourself para lang matanggap ka nya. As long as you can adjust in your relationship, ok na. Tao ka, kung hindi ka niya maappreciate tanga sya!

-shella marie ondoy, 10-April-2006, 10:42 am

ay .. oo .. karamihan pa naman ngayon eh mga tanga .. haay ..

seek God

Don’t pray to be sheltered from problems, but pray to be strong in facing them. Don’t be afraid of pain, but ask for a heart that conquers it.

-rosalie dansel, 09-April-2006, 10:35 pm

moral lesson : always seek God before everything ..

giving up

There’s a difference between GIVING UP and LETTING GO. LETTING GO is sacrificing what was rightfully yours. GIVING UP is forgetting what was never yours.

-rheya vinuya, 06-April-2006, 2:43 pm

giving up .. hehe .. yun ang dapat ko pa lang gawin ..

tulog nalang

never dream of a perfect person to love. for it can only happen in our dreams. And in this life, we have to settle with someone who ever comes. Someone not perfect but real!

-jtp, 06-April-2006, 11:01 am

haay .. makatulog nalang .. perfect pala dun eh .. hahaha ..

that's what friends are for

We usually keep our problems and never want the world to know. Though we try to be stronger, we are weak inside. But when that happens to you, always remember I’m just here – like I’ve always been.

-jtp, 06-April-2006, 11:00 am

it only means one thing .. kung may mga kaibigan ka naman, don’t just keep your problems to yourself .. that’s what friends are for ..

sweet ng friends natin

Ever ask yourself why friends say ‘nasa likod mo lang ako..’ when you have problems? Bakit sa likod lang? Hindi ba pwede sa harap? Kasi friends push you to go on when you give up.

-vernalisa diaz,06-April-2006, 12:24 am

ahh .. how sweet of our friends noh.? .. kaya sana, we’ll do the same to them .. hehe ..

love story

A HAPPY STORY: there was a little boy who’s first love was a young girl in a picture which he found and picked from the street. As time went by, he got married, but still kept it. One day, the wife found it and asked, ‘where did you get this?’ the man said, ‘I kept that since I was a child, y?’ the wife replied, ‘I lost this picture when I was 9..’

-kristine saludez, 04-April-2006, 8:48 pm

yihee .. kilig ..

dont ask

Sabi nila kapag nagmahal ka, magtira ka para sa sarili mo. pero ako, ibibigay ko lahat. Para kapag isang araw, iwanan mo man ako, hindi ko kailangang itanong sa sarili ko, ANO BA ANG PAGKUKULANG KO?

-anthony, 01-April-2006, 8:13 pm

siguro tayo, walang pagkukulang .. pero wala rin siguro silang pagkukulang .. sometimes, love just choose to leave .. why.? .. hindi ko rin alalm .. haha ..

its like pushing them away

Minsan selfish tayo when it comes to our love one. Usually sinasabi natin, AKIN SYA! Pero kung sure kang mahal ka, eto ang sabihin mo: SIGE, SAYO NA! TIGNAN KO NA LANG KUNG SASAMA SYA!

-alvin jarran c., 26-March-2006, 10:37 am

tama diba.? .. be confident kung alam mong mahal ka talaga ng isang tao .. but be sure alam nila na mahal mo rin sila .. dahil ang isang taong nagmamahal at hindi naman niya alam kung mahal din siya ng minamahal niya, kapag narining niya na sinabi mo yung nasa itaas, tsk tsk .. mawawala xa sayo .. because its like pushing them away ..

life goes on

If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. if you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place. Take risks, for life goes on.

-karina kitan , 23-March-2006, 12:34 pm

take the risk kahit masaktan ka .. dahil kung hindi ka pa nasasaktan, hindi mo mararamdaman ang totoong buhay ..

you can do everything

Never underestimate your potential and never be ashamed of what you are. Do your best specially when people expect less of you. because the greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cant.

-archie, 22-March-2006, 4:28 pm

yeah, prove what you can do .. may nabasa ako .. sabi doon, YOU CAN DO EVERYTHING IF YOU ONLY PUT YOUR MIND INTO IT ..

learn to live with it

Its not love that hurts, it’s the absence of it that does. Who says time heals? You don’t get over the pain. you just learn to get along with the pain and live with it through time.

-jobert dela cruz, 15-March-2006, 9:53 pm

okay .. I have to learn living with it .. para maging ordinaryong feeling nalang xa ..

summer scent

Gusto ko kapag namatay ako, ipatransplant mo puso ko dun sa taong mamahalin mo. hindi para mahalin mo ako. Kundi para mahalin ka niya gaya ng pagmamahal ko sayo.

-alvin jarran c., 14-March-2006, 12:29 pm

parang sa endless love three .. yun summer scent .. hehe ..

the only lie i know

Someone asked me why I stayed, I smiled. Why I fell for him, I kept silent. They asked me why of all people I chose him, I answered: IN THE WORLD OF LIES, HE’S THE ONLY TRUTH I KNOW.

-jtp, 31-January-2006, 3:22 pm

in the world of truth, he’s the only lie I know .. wahahahahahahahahaha .. own version ko yan ..

martyr ba?

Love doesn’t seek what’s not there. Love accepts all pain to bear. For love patiently waits for someone out there.

-jtp

parang martyr din ang labas .. haay naku ..

wawa

Mahirap para sa akin ang hindi ka makita. Mahirap para sa akin ang hindi ka makasama. Mahirap para sa akin ang iwan ka. pero mas mahirap para sa akin kapag ipinagpalit mo ako sa iba, kahit alam mong MAHAL KITA.

-sabrina velasco (from pau), 24-January-2006, 7:14 am

wawang pau pau .. haha ..

joy

Love, in its highest form, is not only the readiness to sacrifice. Real love is when the sacrifice can no longer be called sacrifice but a joy.

-unknown

oo .. kasiyahan na ng mga nagmamahal ang pagsasakripisyo .. pero paano nila nagagawang magsaya kung nasasaktan na sila.? ..

edi sayo..

Kung talagang para sayo ang isang tao. . . . . . . . Edi sayo! Saksak mo pa sa baga mo!

-vera marie castro, 08-April-2006, 11:22 am

haha .. as if aagawin noh.? ..

heart's door..

You came into my life through a door. Many have slammed it on their way out. Feel free to stay but if time comes that you would leave, please close it gently. ‘Cause I might get hurt so badly.

-carlo albert salido, 08-April-2006, 12:35 am

haha .. ganun pala yun .. may pinto ang puso .. hekhek ..

no one should believe them..

I like the practical simplicity of this statement:
If people talk negatively about you, live in such a way that no one will believe them.

-kristine, 07-April-2006, 4:39 pm

oh yeah, syempre you have to do that .. parang pamumukhaan mo sila .. pero what if, they’re telling the truth .. truth na ayaw mong tanggapin .. magpapanggap ka nalang ba lagi.? ..

my reflection?

there’s always pain and disappointments when falling in love, but continue sharing your love. ‘Cause the more you love, the more you’ll get to know yourself. And every person you love becomes your reflection.

-carlo angelo salido, 06-April-2006, 10:21 pm

my reflection.? .. meaning ung RRM na un eh .. no way .. hindi ako ganun .. hindi ko kailan man magiging reflection ang mahalay na yun .. yuck .. yuck .. yuck ..

never..

Never whisper words of love if the feeling isn’t true. Never use your charm if you mean to break a heart. Never look into the eyes if all you have to do is lie. And never say ILOVEU if you mean to say goodbye.

-carlo angelo salido, 06-April-2006, 7:57 pm

okay .. wag manloko .. yun lang yun .. at wag din po tayong magpaloko .. dahil walang manloloko kung walang nagpapaloko ..

life rocks!

Quote for the next day:
ANG BUHAY AY PARANG BATO.
ITS HARD.

-mark joseph laderas, 06-April-2006, 4:15 pm

totoo naman diba.? ..

never love again..

How to get over love?
5. say goodbye but never say hello again.
4. forget but never regret.
3. pick up the pieces but never put them back.
2. feel the pain but never keep it.
1. MOVE ON.

-vera castro, 30-March-2006, 7:53 pm

moral lesson .. never love again .. haha .. kidding ..

friendship..

Treat you life like the sea. Your heart as the shore. And friends as the waves. It doesn’t matter how many waves there are. What matters is, which one touches the shore.

-vera castro, 29-March-2006, 11:37 pm

yeah .. true friends .. yun ang message nito ..

be careful...

be careful in letting go of the things you thought are just nothing. ‘Cause maybe someday, you’ll realize that the one you gave away is the very thing you’ve been wishing for to stay.

-archie, 26-March-2006, 11:34 am

well .. kasalanan mo kapag pinakawalan mo diba.? .. everything – everybody – that has been a part of our lives are just as important as the air we are breathing .. ehhh .. basta bahala na kayo mag-interpret .. hehe ..

handle girls with care,,

A woman is worth more than she seems to be. She’s not a toy, by any means! ‘Cause underneath that make-up and stylish hair, there is a sign saying: HANDLE HER WITH CARE.

-annie lou bustillos, 23-March-2006, 9:50 pm

yeah guys .. we are not a toy .. women may be inferior to men, but that doesn’t give you the right to hurt us, use us and play with our feelings .. remember, tao din kami .. nasasaktan .. we are very delicate no matter what you saw in our outside appearance .. tandaan nyo yan ..

it feels like dying..

When you fall from a deadly cliff, you’ll die. When you fall from a high building, you’ll die. But when you fall for someone that doesn’t love you at all, you’ll be alive. But it feels like dying.

-arvin leo datuin, 07-March-2006, 12:09 am

aray ko naman .. kumatok pwede.? .. haha ..

is it worth it?

No one can ever promise you they will never hurt you because at one time or another it will happen. The real promise is if the time you spent together will be worth the pain in the end.

-arvin leo datuin, 06-March-2006, 11:39 pm

yeah .. lalo na kapag nagmahal ka, lagi kang masasaktan .. if its worth it, yun na yun .. haha ..

it never fades away..

its hard to go on living while loving someone secretly. It hurts to see the one you love happy with someone else. But the most painful thing about hidden love? IT NEVER FADES AWAY.

-arvin leo datuin, 06-March-2006, 11:52 pm

it never fades away.?! .. waaah .. paano na ako.? .. hehe .. a hidden love, a love that is not enough for us to take the risk .. tama diba.? ..

its our choice..

Falling in love is like making a stand. When you love someone, you don’t say I LOVE YOU, TAKE MY LOVE. Instead, you say HERE’S MY HEART IN AN OPEN HAND, TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT, I’LL LOVE YOU JUST THE SAME.

-pmcb, 05-March-2006, 11:48 pm

meaning, don’t expect the person you love to love you back .. and when they hurt you, don’t hate them .. its not their fault that you are hurt, in fact, its not their fault that you loved them diba.? .. its your own choice ..

sakitan na lang..

Don’t force yourself to forget the person you love. Never use other people just to forget them. ‘Cause you don’t know how it hurts for person especially when they’re already in love with you.

-kristine saludez, 04-April-2006, 7:03 pm

yeah, don’t force yourself .. ikaw din naman kasi mismo ang masasaktan .. and by using other people, sinasaktan mo rin sila .. ano nalang ang pinagkaiba mo sa mga taong mapagsamantala sa pagmamahal ng iba.? .. eh.? .. hindi ko maintindihan sinasabi ko .. hahahaha ..

so deep..

when we fall so deep, we think its true love. But we have to be prepared to accept that when two people are not meant to be, no matter how much love is given, its not gonna change things.

-kristine saludez, 01-April-2006, 12:28 am

when two people are not meant to be, they don’t have what they call the TRUE LOVE between them .. that’s what I believe ..

ano ba ako sayo?

never put yourself in a situation where in you don’t know where you stand in a person’s life. Never assume, never expect so that if they drop you, you have enough strength to face the reality!

- archie, 31-March-2006, 3:21 pm

edi itanong diba.? .. sbihin mo, ANO BA AKO SAYO.? .. by their answer, alam mo na siguro ang dapat mong gawin .. wag po natin maxadong pababain ang sarili natin .. let us love ourselves too ..

pagmamahal?

ano ba ang pagmamahal? Yun bang pinaiyak kana, pinatawad mo pa? yun bang binalewala kana, hinahanap mo pa? yun bang nagmamahal na ng iba, minamahal mo pa? o yun bang kinalimutan ka na, umaasa ka pa?

-aj, 31-March-2006, 10:31 am

pagmamahal.? .. martir po ang tawag jan .. pero di ba kapag nagmahal ka, once in a while ay nagiging martir ka din.? .. but we must not forget ourselves .. kapag naging martir ka, they will take advantage of you .. so beware ..

Falling down doesn’t make a person a failure, but staying down does. So always remember that no one is perfect. And when you fall so hard, just bounce back higher.

-janice, 13-March-2006, 11:34 am

tama .. we don’t have to stay down .. kailangan din nating tulungan ang sarili natin tumayo at magsimulang muli .. yeah, bounce back higher pero ingat din po tayo .. baka mamaya mauntog tayo ..

hindi nga ba.?

isang bagay ang pinakamasakit kapag nagmahal ka. hindi yung iniwan ka ng taong mahal mo. kundi yung pinag-aralan mong kalimutan siya, kahit alam mong HINDI MO KAYA.

-arlene ongkingco, 11-March-2006, 8:17 pm

hindi naman talaga napag-aaralan ang mga things na hindi natin kaya .. we just WANTED to forget those person who caused us pain, but we CANT .. kasi, sa buhay na ito, once naging mahalaga sa yo ang isang tao, mahirap na makalimutan sila ..

real one

If ever you’ll find someone who makes you smile through storms, comfort you till sun down, face the fact. Keep and never let go of that person. There’s no RIGHT ONE when the REAL ONE comes along

-jobert dela cruz, 28-February-2006, 7:37 am

because by being real, you can be the right person .. yun eh kung kayo talaga ang para sa isat isat .. pero kung hindi, kahit gaano ka pa katotoo, you’ll never be the right person ..

ang tapang

The only way to know that someone really loves you is when after you’ve turned him down, you see him rise up from the fall, walks up to you and say I LOVE YOU MORE NOW THAN I EVER DID BEFORE.

-linkTV

yeah.! .. that’s the spirit .. hekhekhek ..

kId

When I was a little kid, I couldn’t wait to grow old and fall in love. Now that I’m old enough and have fallen in love, I realized that a wounded knee is easier to mend that a broken heart.

-dlounge

sana nga bata pa rin ako .. nung bata pa kasi ako, wala akong pakialam sa mundo .. as long as im free to do what I want, and I can eat foods that I like, okay na .. pero ngayon .. haay ..

both

You’re there, but not really. You’re mine, but not really. I never really had you so I never really lost you. I suppose this is how we’ll always be. I had you, you had me. But then again, not really.

-linkTV

hmmn, ano ba ito.? .. laro.? .. or something like gamitan.? .. ewan ..

mahalin sa huli

Ang hirap maghanap ng taong mamahalin, halos lahat sasaktan ka sa HULI. Bakit hindi na lang ako saktan sa UNA at mahalin sa HULI, pwede naman yun diba?

-dlounge

oo nga noh.? .. bakit nga ba hindi nalang saktan sa una at mahalin sa huli .. para magkaroon naman ng AND THEY LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER .. ahekhekhek .. batang bata eh noh.? .. hilig sa fairy tales ..

patay patay ..

Bago ako mamatay, gusto kong may magandang mangyari sa buhay ko. At kapag bukas na iyon, pwede favor? Sabihin mo namang mahal mo ako.. kahit kunwari lang. =’(

-linkTV

ahehe .. ewan .. natatawa nalang ako kapag nakakabasa ako ng mga messages na tungkol sa mamamatay na .. hehehe .. well .. kalokohan lang naman ng bata yun ah.! .. walang pikon dapat .. hekhek ..

bakit sila ganun?

Marami akong hindi maintindihan. Mahal mo ba talaga ako? Bakit mo ako sinasaktan, pinapaiyak at binabalewala? Alam mo bang mahal kita kahit ganyan ka? O ganyan ka dahil alam mong mahal kita?

-dlounge

let’s put it this way .. siguro, ganun na talaga sila .. pero dahil alam nilang mahal natin sila kahit ganun sila, ayaw na nilang magbago .. I mean, diba, kung tanggap ka naman ng isang tao bilang ikaw, bakit kailangan pang magbago ka.? .. at dahil nga alam nilang mahal natin sila kahit ganun sila, parang pinagyayabang pa nila yung ugali nilang yun .. mga ugali nila na nagiging sanhi para masaktan tayo .. & the likes ..

crazy things..

When you love someone, you'll do crazy things you can't explain, you'll deny the truth and believe in lies. When you love someone, you sacrifice, give everything you've got and don't think twice. You risk it all no matter what.

-anonymous

we risk it all no matter what .. pero hindi ba natin naisip kahit minsan na we have to risk it all if, and only if, the person is worth it.? .. I mean, okay .. you risk it all .. okay, dakila ka na .. pero after that, what.? .. you’ve given everything and yet, the person still cant love you .. isnt it a waste of time.? .. that while you are risking everything for that person, they are risking their everything for the person they love .. brrrrrrrr ..

wag papaloko..

kapag nagmahal ka, hindi baling sabihin nilang martir ka. basta ibigay mo lahat, mahalin mo sya ng sobra. para sakaling iwan ka niya, masasabi mong “hindi ako ang nagkulang, siya..”

-dlounge

oo na nga .. sige na .. tapos xa, ang sasabihin naman niya, “tanga ka kasi..” .. bad no.? .. minahal mo na nga ng lubos, sasabihan ka pang tanga .. pero reality check lang po .. wag po tayong magpakamartir, imulat po natin ang ating mga mata .. I don’t agree nasa puso ang pagmamahal .. nasa utak po yan, hypothalamus to be exact .. pero, sige, dahil pinoy tayo, at gusto nating maniwalang puso ang nagdidikta sa ating damdamin, okay sige .. but.! .. isipin po natin na kaya inilagay ang utak sa ulo, at mas mataas sa puso ay para maging mulat tayo sa katotohanan .. hindi po tayo dapat nagpapakatanga para lang sa pag-ibig .. paganahin po natin ang utak natin .. wag papaloko ..

regret..

The only things in life you regret are the risks you didn’t take. Don’t hold back in love out of fear. You wouldn’t want the burden of all those “what ifs” at the end of a sad, lonely life! You’ll only have yourself to blame if you had a chance at love but chose not to take it!

-anonymous

ganun ba yun.? .. how about yung iniwan ka without having even the slightest idea of what had happened.? .. diba mas maraming “what ifs” yun.? .. lalo na yung, in denial ka sa feelings mo dahil hindi ka sure sa feelings nya .. though, sabi ng mga friends mo, inlababo ka sa kanya, and medyo tanga lang siya not to realize na mahal ka na nya .. eh.? .. tamaan sapul .. hekhekhek ..

glow..

True love cannot be found where it truly does not exist, nor can be hidden where it truly does. You can’t face love no matter how much you’d want to. Neither can you hide it. Love is a genuine emotion, proven over time and consistency. Lovers cannot lie about love!

-anonymous

ahh .. talaga .. yun siguro yung sinasabi nilang nagkakaroon ng glow ang mga taong in love .. that’s why, hindi nila naitatago diba.? .. whatever ..

sinaktan na nga, mamahalin pa..

How would you know if you've fallen in love real hard? It's when someone hurts you and you love him still. Then he hurts you again to find out that you love him even more...

-anonymous

hindi kaya katangahan na yun.? .. ewan ko nalang ha.? ..

follow your heart..

Never be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt a lot, it may give you aches and pain, but if you don't follow your heart; in the end you will cry even more for not giving love a chance.

-anonymous

bakit.? .. kapag nagmahal ka, masasaktan ka lang .. kapag hindi ka nagmahal, masasaktan ka parin .. ehhhh.? .. so what to do.? .. fall in love or not.? .. its our choice .. di ba.? ..

sour graping..

when I lost you, I loved you the most. But between us, you lost more. for someday, I can love someone the way that I loved you, but you can never be loved the way I loved you.

-dlounge

weeeeeh.!! .. sige na nga.!! .. hahaha ..

trust..

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

-anonymous

ganun ba un.? .. hindi ba madalas nating sinasabi, when you fall in love, there’s nothing you can do to stop it .. sometimes, we even trust them kahit ayaw natin .. yes we’re being cautious pero minsan tinatanggal natin sa isip natin ang “doubt” .. kasi, we wanted to work things out .. you know, between you and the one you love ..

sige na nga..

Love is not the right word to say when you feel guilty or the right word to say when you like a person but love really matters when we share our thoughts, our minds, and our hearts...

-anonymous

oo nga naman .. you do not love a person dahil lang kinakaawaan mo siya or dahil guilty ka about something that concerns about that person .. hmmnn, ewan .. haha ..

change..

Everything in life is temporary because everything changes. That is why it takes courage to love, knowing it might end anytime...having faith will make it last.

-anonymous

tama po.! .. katulad nalang ng kasabihang “the only constant thing in this world is change” .. so, habang kaya pa po natin, at habang hindi pa nagbabago ang isang bagay, o pangyayari, o ang tao, hekhek .. give your best .. ang layo yata ng sinabi ko .. hihi ..

galit ako..

hindi ako magagalit kung hindi mo ako mahal. Hindi ako magagalit kung may mahal kang iba, dahil alam kong mas masaya ka sa kanya. Pero ikagagalit ko kapag pinaramdam mo sa akin na mahal mo ako kahit hindi naman.

-dlounge

maybe this is the reason kung bakit ako nanginig sa galit when I saw his car .. opo, galit na galit ako sa kanya .. mahinahon ako, I can even laugh kung sila lang ang pag-uusapan .. pero ang totoo, galit na galit ako ..

weird..

We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in love in mutual weirdness and call it LOVE!

-anonymous

in short, LOVE is WEIRD .. agree.? .. or agree.? .. hehe ..

sya ung nang-iwan..

nung dumaan ka sa harap ko, tinuro kita sa kaibigan ko. Sabi ko, MINAHAL KO YAN. sabi niya, BAKIT MO PINAKAWALAN?. Sabi ko, DI NAMAN AKO EH, SYA YUNG NANG-IWAN.

-dlounge

do I have to elaborate? ..

BoTa.. (uyy flattered, nasama dito)

the human philosophy.
Why do we always reject those who love us, and love someone who doesn’t love us in the first place?
answer:
unconsciously, we enjoy being hurt!

-BoTa, 18-February-2006, 10:05 am

haay, grabee .. isang BoTa po ang nagpadala sa akin nito .. bakit BoTa.? .. secret .. ayun, basahin nyo nalang .. hekhek .. tama naman YATA eh ..

di naman eh..

Love is ones decision in life to stay with someone, kaso minsan, you cant stay with the one you love. Kasi, MAHAL mo xa, MAHAL ka nya .. pero HINDI SIYA MARUNONG MAGPAHALAGA.

-dlounge

hmmn .. somethings not right no.? .. kasi, di ba kapag mahal mo ang isang tao, papahalagahan mo xa.? .. as in, yung iba nga, nakakalimutan ang lahat maipakita lang nila na mahalaga yung minamahal nila eh .. baka naman, hindi talaga xa mahal nung mahal nya noh.? .. kaya hindi marunong magpahalaga ..

insensitive..

Sometimes you wonder how people can become so insensitive. You show them all your love and yet, nothing happens. And how insensitive can we get too. we still love them even if we know.

-anonymous

ganito lang yun eh .. 2 reasons, nagiging insensitive sila kasi takot silang masaktan or nagiging insensitive sila kasi, uhm, just simply because they are not interested after all .. above all, we are insensitive because we wanted to take the risk diba.? ..

the rain..

the rain reminds me of him. how cold he is. how gloomy he made me feel. how much tears I shed because of him. how much damage he caused & how stupid I am for still wanting rain.

-rheya vinuya, 12-February-2006, 6:42 pm

hehe .. yeah .. I remember, tuwing malungkot ako at umiiyak, laging bumubuhos ang ulan .. I dunno .. pero kapag umuulan na, bigla nalang akong titigil sa pag-iyak .. tapos dudungaw ako sa terrace namin .. im watching the rain .. you know, naging therapy ko na xa .. nakakagaan ng loob .. sometimes, id like to think that the sky doesn’t want me to cry .. kaya biglang umuulan .. hehe .. parang tanga noh.? .. pero totoo po un ..

hindi nakakalimot..

Learn to love the people who are with you at present. Forget the people in the past and thank them for hurting you, which led you to love the people you have right now.

-anonymous

uhuh.! .. pero, nakakalimot nga ba tayo.? .. as in really kalimot.? .. maybe .. pero siguro kung may amnesia at alzheimer’s (tama ba.?) lang tayo diba.? .. but in reality, hindi nakakalimot ang puso .. at ang utak ..

tanga tawag dun..

matatago mo ang sakit, mapapaniwala mo ang iba na kaya mo pero hindi mo matatago sa sarili mo na ang taong nang-iwan at nanakit sayo ay ang siyang taong gusto mo pa ring mahalin.

-linkTV

yeah, bakit nga kaya ganun noh.? .. or are we just in love sa idea ng pagiging in love natin sa kanila.? .. or maybe im wrong .. whatever ..

let go..

sometimes its hard to say NO when you really mean YES. its hard to close your eyes when you really wanna see. its hard to forget if you really cant. but the hardest thing to do is LET GO, when your heart says “no, not yet”

-archie, 16-March-2006, 10:58 pm

yeah, sobrang hirap talaga nun .. lalo na yung sapilitan .. yun bang kahit ayaw mo maglet go, you have no choice .. kasi maglet go ka man o hindi, wala na .. wala na sila .. haay ..

oo na..

On letting go: it hurts to see someone you love happy with somebody else; but wouldn't it hurt you more to see that person unhappy...with you?

-anonymous

oo nga eh diba.? .. pinakawalan na nga .. dahil dun siya masaya .. kaya pwede ba.? .. stop adding insult to the injury .. wahehehe .. in tagalog, wag nang budburan ng asin ang sugat .. yuck .. masakit ba talaga yun.? ..

they meant well..

its hard to keep your feelings to the one you love. lalo na kung mahal mo talaga. but it hurts more coz the people around you don’t understand what you feel. kasi di nila alam na dun ka masaya.

-arlene ongkingco, 11-March-2006, 12:32 am

yeah right .. kadalasan diba.? .. ayaw ng friends natin sa mga minamahal natin .. kesyo sasaktan ka lang niya .. papaiyakin .. so on .. but did you ever think na, they’re just concerned about you .. na they don’t want you to get hurt .. minsan nakakainis diba.? .. sasabihin natin, its our choice to be hurt basta makasama lang natin ang mahal natin .. but don’t be selfish .. dahil tuwing nasasaktan ka, at tumatakbo ka sa kanila, nasasaktan din sila para sayo .. wag po natin isantabi ang mga payo ng friends natin .. they only meant well ..

blame me..

minsan gusto kong sabihin sayo, sobra mo akong sinaktan, pinaasa, pinaiyak at pinagmukhang tanga. Kaso natatakot ako, baka sabihin mo, BAKIT MO AKO SINISISI? SINABI KO BA SAYO NA MAHALIN MO AKO?

-linkTV

oo nga naman .. when we love, we should not put blame on other people .. kasi when we fall, walang makakapigil po sa atin except ourselves di ba.? .. so no one’s to blame except US .. ang gulo ..

why..

too often its hard to say goodbye, especially when that person really means so much to you. but sometimes we have to say goodbye not because you didn’t care anymore but because you already loved too much.

-ajed, 06-March-2006, 11:28 pm

why.? .. just because you loved too much you have to say goodbye.? .. why.? .. isn’t the love you feel will be enough to make you stay or something like that.? .. why.? ..

mystery..

the importance of something is seen when its done. the worth of someone is realized when they’re gone. for it’ll always be a mystery that we realize the essence when its already a memory.

-archie, 27-February-2006, 12:43 am

is it really a mystery.? .. I don’t think so .. alam kong everybody knows it .. pero lahat naman kasi tayo in denial di ba.? .. yun nga lang, yung ibang tao, nawala na at lahat, in denial parin .. kailan kaya sila matatauhan.? ..

mahal..

mahal mo ba ako? Siguro hindi. Pakiramdam ko hindi. Kasi wala kang pakialam sa akin. Alam mo ba ang ibig sabihin ng salitang MAHAL? Siguro hindi. Alam mo lang sabihin, pero hindi mo alam gawin.

-linkTV

a typical playboy & playgirl .. I-love-you ng I-love-you, hindi naman pala totoo .. kaya nga sinasabi nila, kapag ang isang tao, nahihirapang sabihin na mahal ka nya, mahal ka talaga .. at kung napakadali naman para sa kanila na sabihin na mahal ka nila, hindi ka talaga nila mahal .. eh.? .. siguro totoo .. ganyan po kasi yung iba kong mga kakilala .. pero paano naman ako .. nahihirapan akong sabihin ang words na I-love-you sa mga taong hindi ko naman talaga mahal .. syempre diba.? .. hindi naman kami close no.! .. hahaha .. pero kapag mahal ko talaga .. uhm, nevah mind .. basta .. haha .. ang gulo mo talaga cessai ..

bygones..

time can heal wounds. time can give another chance. time can help to forget. time can make us move on. but time… can never bring back what has already ended.

-jewel grace campillanos, 10-February-2006, 12:20 pm

yeah .. i can only agree .. so let bygones be bygones.!!! ..

tamaan sapul..

minsan akala mo kaibigan lang siya. Tagapayo sa mga problema mo. akala mo wala lang siya. Pero hindi mo ba naisip na baka MAHAL KA PALA NIYA?

-dlounge

hmmn .. seems familiar .. parang isang friend ko ang dumaan sa ganitong situation .. harharhar .. tamaan po sapul ..

friends..

Friends are not the one who laugh when you laugh and cry when you cry. They are the ones who make you laugh and stop you from crying.

-anonymous

ay.? .. bakit ako naiiyak kapag umiiiyak mga friends ko.? .. nasasaktan kapag nasasaktan sila .. masaya kapag masaya sila .. kasi I believe that the person who can make them stop from crying is the only person who made them cry .. alangan namang ako yun .. sama ko naman .. bleh.! ..

wag magsalita ng tapos..

hindi ko alam kung bakit ganito ako, hindi ko alam kung ano ginawa mo. pero ito lang ang alam ko… IKAW lang ang minahal ko ng ganito.

-linkTV

hekhek .. mga katoto .. wag po tayong magsasalita ng tapos tulad nito ha.? .. kadalasan kasi, yung mga sinasabihan natin ng ganyan, sila pa ang nang-iiwan sa atin .. o kaya naman, baka isang araw, magising tayong iba na ang mahal natin .. kaya po, bawal magsalita ng tapos ..

from her..

N0t n0w..ttpucnq muna lht ng alamqng pwdEng gmitin s knla..pgntposQ n un sis, dunq cla bBlikan pRa sau..dunq xa ku2nin..

-jtp, 09-September-2005, 8:31 pm

hindi na ako maghihintay noh..

kapag dumating ang araw na naisip mong mahal mo din ako, sana nandito pa ako. natatakot kasi akong baka kapag dumating yung araw na yun, pagod na ako sa kahihintay sayo.

-dlounge

'maybe im just a sentimental fool, bringing back memories from the photographs of you' .. tama po ang nababasa nyo .. yes, im on the process of giving up pero, sentimental fool nga ako diba.? .. umaasa parin sa isang impossible .. yung mga pictures nila na nasa bestfriend ko, nawawala na .. may amnesia na rin xa .. kumbaga, nawala na lahat ng memories nya .. ako, still trying to hold on to those things .. pero sensya na .. pagbigyan nyo na ako .. when august comes .. itatago ko na lahat yun .. sa place na hindi ko laging makikita ..

question..

tatanungin kta. Kakalimutn mo n din b?

-ads, 17-December-2005, 7:20 pm

bestfriend po ng bestfriend ko ang nagtanong nito sakin (tama ba.?) .. kung tama ako, ang sagot ko sa kanya, ewan ko .. siguro dahil, ayokong magbitiw ng salita .. gusto ko, kung kakalimutan ko xa, on my own di ba.? .. I don’t know .. sa ngayon, im on the process .. sana magsucceed ako di ba.? .. pero hindi parin ako nakakasiguro .. pero thanks po sa taong ito .. kasi sa tuwing nababasa ko 2ng message nya, laging kong naiisip na “its over .. I have to give it up .. “ .. kumbaga, nagkakaroon ako ng motivation sa ginagawa kong paglimot ..

still cant hide..

sometimes I smile to cover up the pain. sometimes I laugh to cover up the hurt. but whether I smile or laugh, I cant still hide my feelings. MAHAL KO PARIN PALA SYA.

-linkTV

naman .. ayoko na sa message na ito .. so bye-bye ..

answer: YES..

Have you ever loved only to let it go? Have you ever hated someone and loved him so? Have you ever missed someone so bad it made you cry? Have you ever seen someone left alone without knowing why?

-anonymous

sa lahat ng tanong, yes po ang sagot ko .. based on experience di ba.? .. nagmahal ako, but unfortunately, I have to give him up .. as of now, I hate him so much pero diba, there’s a thin line between love and hate .. so un .. then, siguro nga namimiss ko sya, pero tuyo na po ang tear duct ko .. wala nang lumalabas na luha .. haha .. then, ako, nakita ko ang sarili ko na naiwan mag-isa (not only me, may isang tao pa jan) with so many questions in my mind .. kasi nga, hindi ko alam kung bakit .. I don’t even believe that he’s telling the truth .. ngee.! .. siguro in denial lang ako noh.? .. siguro totoo yung sinabi niya .. anyways, its been 7 months and 5 days .. hekhek ilang buwan na lang, tapos na sila .. wekwekwek ..

im so tired..

sometimes you need to be deaf for the sake of somebody, you need to be insensitive to lessen the pain, you need to smile for the strength of others. but did you ever fill that you need to stop? kasi … pagod ka na sa lahat?!

-vera castro, 28-December-2005, 10:49 pm

when I received this message, literal akong nanghina at hindi makahinga .. oo, siguro nga I need to stop na .. kasi pagod na ako .. pagod na pagod na ako sa lahat .. pagod na akong masaktan .. pagod na akong mag-isip .. pagod na akong magpanggap na masaya ako at nakalimutan na ang lahat .. sometimes, mas gusto ko pang matulog nalang kaysa pumasok sa school at mga kaibigan .. dahil kapag tulog ako, at least kahit papano nakakatakas ako sa mundo ko .. siguro nga duwag ako .. but you cant blame me .. im so tired .. kung tulog ako, hindi ako makakaramdam ng sakit .. hindi ako nag-iisip .. hindi ko kailangang magpanggap na masaya .. kung pwede lang matulog habang buhay .. gagawin ko ..

friendship yun..

LOVE is creating a happy and right relationship with the person whom you’ll love in the beginning and develop love much more until then.

-kuya tat

yeah right .. a happy and right relationship doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to have a “relationship” with the one you love .. diba.? .. pwedeng friendship lang naman po ang “happy and right” relationship na iyon diba.? .. so, people who are in love doesn’t have to have a boy-girl relationship .. minsan pa nga, mas mabuting friends nalang .. because friends doesn’t hurt each other .. he-he.! ..

loving too much..

Why do people say loving too much makes you stupid? It's because you'll always be wrong even if you're right. You're weak even if you're strong. You give without receiving. You cry, get pains but still say you're happy.

-anonymous

no comment ..

promises..

you promise to take care of me, but you hurt me. you promise me joy, but you brought me tears. you promise to love me, but you gave me pain. me? I promise you nothing … but I gave you my everything.

-linkTV

this quote justifies the saying, “Promises are made to be broken…” .. sana nga wag nalang silang mangako no.? .. para hindi na tayo umaasa ..

true love daw..

When you find arms that will hold you at your weakest, eyes that will see you at your ugliest, lips that will kiss you in both instances, and a heart that will love you at your worst, then you have found true love.

-anonymous

uhm, yeah .. tama yun ..

cguro totoo toh..

we hate the person who hurt us. sasabihin ng isip mo: "never ko na xa mamahalin ulit! swear!" but if you would listen from within, sabi ng puso mo: "just one SORRY, ill forget everything, promise!"

-unknown

opo .. i think it's true .. that is, kung tunay po nating mahal ang taong yun .. pero kung hindi nmn, ngee! .. kahit lumuha pa sila ng dugo diba.? .. who cares about them.? ..

akala ko ba..

pasaway k tlg!,.grbe!,.X(,.gnglit mq tlg huh,.nka2la2ke kn,.X(

-rm, 30-august-2005, 11:17pm

nakakalalaki daw aq .. bakit kaya.? .. sbi nya ganun xa.? .. hindi kaya nangt3p lng 2 .. hahaha .. nakakalalaki daw aq .. hindi ko talaga mapagkonek ..

hindi na poh ngayon..

nni2wla aqng mhl mq..

-rm, 29-august-2005 10:34pm

hehe .. trying to move on .. pero, hindi kaya inlove na lang ako sa idea ng pagiging inlove q sa kanya.? .. ang gulo .. pero malay nyo .. ganun na nga yun ..

duh..

cez, ndi aq iiwas.., il stil kip n t0uch w/ u.,gs2q lng sbhnt0h pr dkn umsa,.cez plz,.naiiyk nq,.

-rm, 29-August-2005 9:55pm

sus .. talaga lang ha.? .. pero asan xa ngayon.? .. nagtatago.? .. ayaw nila magpakita .. i mean nya .. hirap kasi talaga kapag may nagawa kang kasalanan noh.? ..

grabee..

ive done the bravest thing in my life, letting go of someone i loved so much. but as ive done my bravest thing, ive never felt so weak, all I could do is breakdown, cry and wish that I was never that brave..

-emotero

cno nga ba ang taong ito.? .. nagtext po kasi siya sa bestfriend ko .. kung anu ano .. kaya i named him (or her) emotero .. weird kung tutuusin .. pero tama po ang tinext nya .. sometimes we "think" we're brave .. pero hindi pala .. ang pagiging "matapang" pala natin ang nagpapasakit pa sa atin .. so sad .. pero yun po ang napapansin ko sa mga tao sa paligid ko .. they let go to prove they're strong/brave .. pero when they're alone, no one knows na umiiyak sila .. wishing they could bring back the time .. pero wala na silang magagawa di ba.?

but to no avail..

lmq n mhl mq,.pr0 u hav 2 let it go,.give it up,.i d0 n0t dsrve ur l0ve,.plz,.pr sau dn nmn t0h,..

-rm

i did everything .. pero i guess, you cant make a person stay .. lalo na kung hindi ka na niya mahal .. hmmn .. nmn .. alam ko nmng hindi nya ako minahal eh .. sana hindi nlng nya ako pinaniwala noh.? .. bad xa ..

my worst attitude..

bkt b la k ng msb kng d yng pkmty pkmty n yn huh!!!! nri2ndi nq!! hyaan mnaq! ayqng mgmhl ng ta0ng dnya kyng phlghn ang srli nya!

-rm

opo .. galit xa .. just by reading the text, alam nyo na ba kung ano ang worst attitude ko.? .. ay nmn, tanga lang ang hindi makagets ..

bakit nga kaya..

ndi!,.bkt nmn aq mggng msya?! nhhrpn n ngaq eh,.cez,.hyaan mnaq,.bu0ng buhyq,.dq ngwa ang mga tlgng gs2q,.ky sn wg mnaq pglan,.

-rm

hehe .. alam qng msya na xa ngayon .. i just dont know kung pano sila nagsasaya kahit alam nilang may nasasaktan sila .. siguro nga .. buong buhay siyang hindi naging malaya dahil sa daddy nya .. i dont remember kung pinigilan ko nga ba siya .. pinigilan ko ba.? .. ang alam ko lang .. uhm .. di ko maalala ..

totoo nmn kaya..

pnptwa nmn kt ah,.hmm,.lm mb,.la nq trbh0 ngun,.

-rm, 30-august-2005

i dont know kung maniniwala ako sa text na to .. dapat nga ba.? .. ewan ko .. yun lang po .. senti mode c ako eh ..

a story to remember..

a boy & a girl fel nlov and promised 2 luv each othr 4evr. As a sign og der promiz d girl gve d guy a bracelet lockd in his wrist & d girl kept d key.wen they grew up d boy fell nluv w/ another woman & he askd 4 d key so dat he cud unlock d bracelet. D girl smiled, gve d key & simply wlkd awy. D guy knew dat d girl nvr lovd him. So he dcdd 2 stay awy frm d girl. After 2 days d guy found out dat d girl died bcoz of heart failure. D key usd 2 unlock d bracelet was d same key used 2 operate d oxygen tank w/c keeps her
breathing when she sleeps. At d funeral d boy read d words carved in d key “id die if I lose u"

-galing sa cp ni adrianne joy datuin

ayun .. ewan ko .. nagandahan ako sa message nito maybe because, nakakarelate ako .. ang lesson: dont trust your life to someone na hindi ka naman siguradong mamahalin ka habambuhay .. opo, i once trust my life with somebody .. i build my dreams around him .. sya ang naging source ng strength q .. sya ang naging reason sa lahat ng ngiti ko, sa lahat ng pagsisikap ko .. hekhek .. foolish it may seem, pero totoo .. when he left, i almost die .. yes, almost dahil buhay na buhay pa po ako .. and im coping already .. harharhar ..

bakit nga ba..

y do we say "im ok" whenever we get hurt? is it because we are brave enough to handle the pain? or is it because its our way of pretending we are fine... eventhough... we are totaly broken?

-from jacqueline pacis, 03-february-2006

quote po xa mga katoto .. dinirecho ko na lang ng type .. hekhek .. pwede naman diba.? .. ayun, bakit nga ba tayo mahilig magpretend.? .. ako, i honestly don't know .. siguro dahil ayaw nating kaawaan tayo, am i right or i am right.? .. nevertheless, its already our nature .. bibihira na yung taong sobrang candid .. na kapag nasasaktan na xa, sasabihin nya sa taong nakakasakit sa kanya na "hey stop, nasasaktan mo na ako.." .. sa tingin ko nga wala ng ganun sa ngayon eh ..

sweet noon, sour na ngayon..

hehehe .. i've received this message 9:30 in the evening, 15-august-2005, from my bestfriend ..

"My anouncement din dw c anakq..ik2sl n daw cla ni pRinces mae bernabe bukas..iiwan m naq..hmf!..d ble.."

katulad nga nung title, sweet xa noon .. pero ngayon, hindi ko na maappreciate .. pero hindi ko rin mabura ng ganun-ganun lang .. this message have made an impact in my life .. i've learned to live with it .. pero exactly two weeks after that (29-august-2005), halos nasira ang buhay ko dahil lang jan .. ang laki kong tanga para maniwala sa 'anak' ng bestfriend ko noh.? .. by the way, hindi na nya anak ngayon yun .. haha .. basta .. mahabang kwento kasi eh ..

kung noon, hindi ko mabura .. ngayon nabura ko na sa cellphone ko .. this is my way of letting go ..

i'll start with these ..

"i've realized that life is indeed full of contradictions. sometimes it's crazy to be sane, you need to fall to fly. people suffer because you care. you have to unlearn to know the lesson. you have to give up because you are strong, you have to be wrong to make things right. nonetheless, life's complexities are also life's source of beauty. we should cry to laugh again. fall apart to be whole again & get hurt to love again."

-from sabrina velasco, 16-march-2006

ano pa ba masasabi ko.? .. everything is in that quote .. tama diba.? .. contradicting but then, it's true .. whether we agree with it or not, alam nating ito talaga ang nangyayari sa buhay natin .. yun lang .. hekhek ..